| What
is the focus of somatic therapy?
Somatic therapy is a holistically oriented therapy which integrates
the mental, emotional, spiritual and physical aspects of each
of us. It accomplishes this by helping us to become aware of
our bodies and the sensations we experience through them. When
our mind can be so busy with worries, schedules and concerns,
our body's awareness and breathing can help us to focus on
what we are experiencing in the moment. It is so easy for our
mind to get lost in what has happened in the past or what will
happen in the future. When we take the time to focus, we can
become aware of those places where we are "holding." That
is, we can recognize those places where we are tight, sore
or uncomfortable. It may be our stomach, shoulders, neck or
head that we realize is tight or uncomfortable. We may not
have even known that we were uncomfortable until we stopped
and paid attention.
How does somatic therapy work?
Taking time to check in with ourself provides us with an avenue
for getting in touch with what we are feeling and experiencing
rather than just being lost in our thoughts and activities.
It is while focusing like this that we may notice other sensations
or feelings that may arise. It is natural, especially if any
of these sensations are uncomfortable, to want to change our
focus, to move away from them. What are these sensations about?
The sensations we have tell us something about what is going
on within us. Those areas where we are tight are areas where
we are in some way holding on to something. Whenever we have
had some painful or traumatic experience, we carry not only
the memory and feelings connected with that experience, but
we "remember" it physically as well. It is a kind
of bodily memory of that event. And it is expressed through
a contraction of muscle or of tissue or a loss of freely flowing
energy in an area of our body that is in someway connected
with that event for us. Sometimes that connection may be very
symbolic. Perhaps we struggle with someone who is a real pain
in the neck and we find that our neck becomes tight when we
are around them. Many times we may not be aware of what the
connection is. It is not nearly as important to understand
what the connection is as it is to simply be aware of what
we are experiencing.
What do we do with our awareness?
What do we do when we notice our sensations? Stay with them!
Notice how we may want to move away or do anything but stay
with what we are experiencing. Yet it is so important that
we stay with it as best we can. If we allow ourselves to be
curious about what is happening, to want to explore and to
honor what comes up for us we are already involved in our healing.
Even if we are only able to do this for a moment. It is a moment
of healing.
The role of the therapist.
It is important here to comment on the role of the therapist.
It is the task of the therapist to be very present in a supportive
and caring way with the client. In being very present with
and focused on the client, the therapist is also in a place
to give the client feedback about what is observed with the
client. This support and feedback helps the client in becoming
more aware of their own experience and helps to validate the
client's experience. This is an important aspect of the therapy.
The client generally experiences this as having a good and
caring rapport with the therapist. If this is not present,
it may be that the relationship is not a good match because
of personality or other factors. On the other hand, there are
those times when the experiences that are touched on in the
client may bring up anger or pain from the client's past that
may become focused on the therapist. What is important to do
here is to bring this up with the therapist. A good therapist
will be willing and comfortable in helping the client to work
through ALL of these issues. This is the opportunity to work
them through and not just keep them buried and remain stuck
with them.
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